I’ve been dating my partner for 9 months. She has a primary and I have an anchor / nesting partner. My role as ‘secondary’ has always ached a little but we found a good rhythm that works for us. 9 months in - and with Christmas coming up, family coming to visit, travel with respective partners - I’m finding us bumping up against this boundaries. I’d like to make it work so want us to revisit the relationship menu.

So my question to you: on this sheet there’s a lot of blank spaces. What have you filled in in these sections? I’m having a hard time articulating what I want or what the future could look like.

Need some inspiration around what could also be included in here!

Thanks!