How many of you have long distance partners and what do those partnerships look like? How often do you talk? How often do you see each other? How long has the relationship been going? Why did you choose a LDR?

My partner of a few months told me that they want to move cities in about a year (dependent on finding a job elsewhere), but we have a really special connection.

I’ve only done long distance once before, it was mono and we had a clear goal to be together after a certain period of time.

I can see myself caring for this partner for much longer than a year, so in my mind I’m playing with what a LDR would look like. Or maybe it is just better to end the romantic relationship when they move but remain friends?

Of course, I’ll make an actual choice when the time comes, but I am curious to learn more about LDRs in a polyamorous structure.