So I'm super curious from y'alls experience why do people think that being Poly we are so different in our relationships....let me explain.

I have met so many people who are like oh you care or oh these things bother you or oh this is a normal relationship??

Excuse me but just because I date multiple people doesn't mean that the people I date I dont treat like normal relationships. Idk maybe I'm wording this horribly cause my vyvance hasn't kicked in but still...I don't get it.

We a love and care and pour into our relationship just like any other relationship. We may have things we can't offer or maybe things we don't wanna offer but that doesn't mean I don't like having things with my partners. It all just depends idk maybe I'm being a big baby haha all I know is that each relationship is special and wholesome. It's not this robotic roommate experience where we don't care or get jealous about stuff. We just gotta do a little more extra work and if we are being honest everyone should be doing this work regardless of whatever relationship structure you're in.

Sorry rant over.