So I have been married 6 years and open for 5 years. It was my husbands idea I am (31f) and my husband ( 36 m) so I don't want this to sound weird or be offensive I know some people that like to be.

But I have been dating black men off and on the last few years but recently I've gotten to were I'm attracted to only black men. Can't explain it really but I've had more ..... connection and satisfaction.

I love my husband unconditionally I don't want to be with anyone like I want him, but sexually on the rare occasion I let him play with me it's not really satisfying to me anymore.

How can I tell him something like that without it hurting his feelings.

I have been trying chastity with husband for a while now and he will ask me to say things like he cant please me. How do I say it for real tho?