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5 months ago
I feel that DEADPOOL is a representation of an externalised-presenting AUDHDer
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5 months ago
To the heterosexual men here who are married/in a relationship, or have been married/in a relationship before: how did you meet your partner, what traits did they fall for and what did you do to get them to like you? (e.g. they thought you were funny, or they thought you were good looking, etc.)
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5 months ago
"People with autism should be happy that they don't have adhd. I would rather be autistic than have ADHD." - from a uni classmate with ADHD when we were talking about neurodivergence
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5 months ago
I don't understand how so many of y'all here are able to hold down jobs, friends and relationships. I just don't know how to make friends with people or be likeable. That is my main life issue. When I speak to a cute girl, my mind goes blank after the initial small talk or I stutter and say odd sh*t
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6 months ago
HOW DO YOU MAKE FRIENDS?!?!? This negative aspect of autism has ruined every aspect of my life. I now have no friends and am basically disabled in speaking to women romantically. And worst of all, since I cannot make friends I can't survive in the workplace.
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6 months ago
"But conventionally attractive people with autism have it very hard too coz they have to deal with extra social pressure placed on them" suggests a very unfair assumption that being conventionally unattractive means society puts lower a pressure on you to properly socially conform. This is NOT TRUE!
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6 months ago
Extreme anxiety and panic before starting a new job: how do I make sure I make friends with everyone????
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6 months ago
Why are older generations with Aspergers better at masking and general social conformity?
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6 months ago
If you are 18+, are you employed, or in training or education?
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7 months ago
I feel extremely guilty for being born in the rich, developed world whilst being unable to handle adult life and employment. I also struggle with an impending sense of doom from my anxiety, thinking that I will be alone and unemployed forever, etc.
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7 months ago
Having trouble with very intrusive thoughts and self harm 
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7 months ago
To aspies who had a glowup: did you also start to feel intense imposter syndrome in romantic, platonic relationship and other aspects of life?
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7 months ago
If you are an adult who is hypersexual, EMBRACE it!
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7 months ago
I think I finally understand how some of us with Aspergers are able to mask well enough to have friends, jobs and relationships whilst others aren't
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7 months ago
My university mental health services cannot help me because "social skills deficiencies and training are not what college students usually ask help for". I just realised how insanely f*cked I am just by having Aspergers
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7 months ago
How do you transition from a surface level acquaintance to a real friendship?
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7 months ago
The ONLY reason I cannot hold down jobs is the SOCIAL aspect of the job with coworkers/managers. Im perfectly fine in doing the job itself
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7 months ago
If you are between the ages of 18-25, are you in employment and/or education?
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7 months ago
The extremely degrading feeling of being unemployed and having to financially depend on your parents whilst seeing others your age being financially independent functioning young adults
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7 months ago
Not sure about you guys but being conventionally attractive was VERY important for me in dealing with Aspergers!
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7 months ago
Feel like I am wasting the insanely lucky opportunity I have been given by living in the developed world
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7 months ago
21 Male How do I stop thinking about my perfect ex???? This type of limerence is going to kill me (btw there is some pretty NSFW content here lol)Â