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r/OnlineAffairs

128,046 subscribers

This is a subreddit for attached or married redditors who are are looking for a discreet online relationship with other attached or married redditors.

Moderators

Updated Feb 28, 2025

u/Icecold_82 Active

Added 4 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/audiogonewild

u/letshavevafun Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs, r/RoanokeGoneWild

u/Valiric999 Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 2 days ago

u/AMixofOldandNew Active

Added 2 years ago

Also moderates: r/Affairs

u/PM_Me-Your_Perineum Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 2 days ago

u/sarahstales Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 2 days ago

u/AcornSpider Removed

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u/Ripfez Removed

Added 2 years ago • Removed 2 days ago

Also moderates: r/bwc, r/bwc4ebony

u/floodassistant Active

Added 5 months ago

Also moderates: r/vancouverr4r, r/OhioHookups, r/ReactionVideos, r/NanaimoR4R, r/AskWomenAdviceNSFW, and 135 more...

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/OnlineAffairs by Chemical-Space-5233

3 hours ago

View Post: [M4F] 30. EST. I'm tired of feeling like something's missing

1

[M4F] 30. EST. I'm tired of feeling like something's missing

M4F

Posted by Chemical-Space-5233

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0%

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1 month

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33

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

32

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

3 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Puzzled-Tonight-6063

10 hours ago

View Post: 51 m4f looking for a friend first, benefits later.

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51 m4f looking for a friend first, benefits later.

M4F

Posted by Puzzled-Tonight-6063

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to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by mindfulclimax

10 hours ago

View Post: 40 [M4F] I see you.

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40 [M4F] I see you.

M4F

Posted by mindfulclimax

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to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by dirtyadventures40

10 hours ago

View Post: 40 [m4f] Any late night lurker here for light hearted connect tonight

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40 [m4f] Any late night lurker here for light hearted connect tonight

M4F

Posted by dirtyadventures40

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

4 months

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Yes

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Total Karma

38

Link Karma

36

Comment Karma

2

Profile updated: 3 weeks ago

Posts updated: 3 weeks ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Ashamed-Artichoke437

10 hours ago

View Post: 38 [M4F] Seeking a Genuine Connection

1

38 [M4F] Seeking a Genuine Connection

M4F

Posted by Ashamed-Artichoke437

Account Strength

10%

Account Age

4 months

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No

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Total Karma

30

Link Karma

23

Comment Karma

7

Profile updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

10 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by SirPoofus

10 hours ago

View Post: 22 [M4F] Looking for an affair

1

22 [M4F] Looking for an affair

M4F

Posted by SirPoofus

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to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by HealthcareDirector88

10 hours ago

View Post: 39 (m4f) surgery director looking for lighting to strike

2

39 (m4f) surgery director looking for lighting to strike

M4F

Posted by HealthcareDirector88

Account Strength

10%

Account Age

5 months

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No

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Total Karma

137

Link Karma

42

Comment Karma

95

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by BigTechPackage

10 hours ago

View Post: 36 [M4F] #PNW/PST Self-Aware Coalesced Decaying Energy Field Seeks Same

0

36 [M4F] #PNW/PST Self-Aware Coalesced Decaying Energy Field Seeks Same

M4F

in PNW/PST

Posted by BigTechPackage

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to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago in PNW/PST

to r/OnlineAffairs by Lordbahj

10 hours ago

View Post: 39 [M4F] #Washington no expectations and no pressure, just looking for casual conversation and we’ll see what happens

1

39 [M4F] #Washington no expectations and no pressure, just looking for casual conversation and we’ll see what happens

M4F

in Washington

Posted by Lordbahj

Account Strength

50%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

657

Link Karma

384

Comment Karma

273

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 3 weeks ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago in Washington

to r/OnlineAffairs by struggling_life09

10 hours ago

View Post: 32M4F – online, Looking for a Genuine Connection & Some Sexual Chemistry

2

32M4F – online, Looking for a Genuine Connection & Some Sexual Chemistry

M4F

Posted by struggling_life09

Account Strength

70%

Account Age

1 year

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

5,664

Link Karma

1,382

Comment Karma

4,282

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 11 months ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by SukMikeHok0

10 hours ago

View Post: 43 - [M4F] - Hurry.... Not many guys left here to choose from...

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43 - [M4F] - Hurry.... Not many guys left here to choose from...

M4F

Posted by SukMikeHok0

Account Strength

80%

Account Age

7 years

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

38

Link Karma

12

Comment Karma

26

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Striking-Yellow-5318

10 hours ago

View Post: 26m4f… here’s what sets me apart…are you out there

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26m4f… here’s what sets me apart…are you out there

M4F

Posted by Striking-Yellow-5318

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

1 month

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

n/a

Profile updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by drew93000

10 hours ago

View Post: 38 [M4F] #WA Looking for a kinky BDSM connection

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38 [M4F] #WA Looking for a kinky BDSM connection

M4F

in Washington

Posted by drew93000

Account Strength

80%

Account Age

8 years

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

1

Link Karma

1

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n/a

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 1 year ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago in Washington

to r/OnlineAffairs by Cisfor_uck

10 hours ago

View Post: 35 M4F: Dad for long term affair

1

35 M4F: Dad for long term affair

M4F

Posted by Cisfor_uck

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

6 months

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

88

Link Karma

72

Comment Karma

16

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 2 months ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by temptedpastor

10 hours ago

View Post: 35 M4F CST - Looking For a Specific Kind of Woman

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35 M4F CST - Looking For a Specific Kind of Woman

M4F

Posted by temptedpastor

Account Strength

10%

Account Age

1 year

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No

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No

Total Karma

17

Link Karma

15

Comment Karma

2

Profile updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

11 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by LonelyIsland25

10 hours ago

View Post: 44 [M4F] #Ohio. #Online. Bad Husband Seeks Bad Wife for Good Times

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44 [M4F] #Ohio. #Online. Bad Husband Seeks Bad Wife for Good Times

M4F

in Ohio, OH

Posted by LonelyIsland25

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to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago in Ohio, OH

to r/OnlineAffairs by lookingforyou1778

10 hours ago

View Post: 42 [M4F] California/Online, Looking for a woman to help ignite that passion that we all are searching to find.

1

42 [M4F] California/Online, Looking for a woman to help ignite that passion that we all are searching to find.

M4F

in California

Posted by lookingforyou1778

Account Strength

20%

Account Age

2 years

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No

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No

Total Karma

5

Link Karma

5

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n/a

Profile updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago in California

to r/OnlineAffairs by Low_Drama590

10 hours ago

View Post: 43 [M4F] Burly Professor for a Banter Buddy.

0

43 [M4F] Burly Professor for a Banter Buddy.

M4F

Posted by Low_Drama590

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

6 months

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

423

Link Karma

422

Comment Karma

1

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by imightregretthis714

10 hours ago

View Post: 46 [M4F] #Fullerton - California - Never Received a Proper Blow Job (looking for 18+ only)

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46 [M4F] #Fullerton - California - Never Received a Proper Blow Job (looking for 18+ only)

M4F

in Fullerton, CA

Posted by imightregretthis714

Account Strength

30%

Account Age

2 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

27

Link Karma

16

Comment Karma

11

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 3 weeks ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago in Fullerton, CA

to r/OnlineAffairs by Physical_Yak5730

10 hours ago

View Post: 28 [M4F] #online any older woman wanting to chat msg me

1

28 [M4F] #online any older woman wanting to chat msg me

M4F

in online

Posted by Physical_Yak5730

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to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago in online

to r/OnlineAffairs by Owned_by_a_Cat

10 hours ago

View Post: 28 [M4F] - Banters with a touch of flirtation~

1

28 [M4F] - Banters with a touch of flirtation~

M4F

Posted by Owned_by_a_Cat

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

4 months

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

116

Link Karma

1

Comment Karma

115

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by TXAdvent123

10 hours ago

View Post: 43 [M4F] #Dallas - Married / White / Successful

1

43 [M4F] #Dallas - Married / White / Successful

M4F

in Dallas, TX

Posted by TXAdvent123

Account Strength

60%

Account Age

3 months

Verified Email

Yes

Verified Flair

No

Total Karma

1,773

Link Karma

339

Comment Karma

1,434

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 2 months ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago in Dallas, TX

to r/OnlineAffairs by Downtown-Interest652

10 hours ago

View Post: 33 [M4F] The dad next door looking to bring out your inner brat

1

33 [M4F] The dad next door looking to bring out your inner brat

M4F

Posted by Downtown-Interest652

Account Strength

40%

Account Age

2 months

Verified Email

Yes

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No

Total Karma

149

Link Karma

135

Comment Karma

14

Profile updated: 1 month ago

Posts updated: 1 month ago

to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by Wonderful_Animal5

10 hours ago

0

46 [M4F] - Pics on my profile, if you're interested

M4F

Posted by Wonderful_Animal5

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to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago

to r/OnlineAffairs by ProfessionalAir9540

10 hours ago

View Post: 37 [m4f] USA — 10 things I like (and don’t like)

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37 [m4f] USA — 10 things I like (and don’t like)

M4F

Posted by ProfessionalAir9540

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to r/OnlineAffairs

12 hours ago