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r/BDSMAdvice

411,595 subscribers
A warm, diverse, inclusive group of friendly, knowledgeable, kinky people. Here to provide assistance, education & relationship advice.
If you're looking for graphic content, or overtly sexual material, we're not the place for you.
Have an issue in your kinky relationship? Want to know more about a specific technique? Think you have a fetish, but don't know what to call it?
You're not alone. Ask us.

Moderators

Updated Nov 20, 2024
u/TeaAitch Active
Added 6 years ago
Also moderates: r/humiliation_kink, r/RedditBDSM, r/bdsmconfessions, r/BDSMHelp, r/FemKink, and 1 more...
u/KevinTurvey Active
Added 4 years ago
Also moderates: r/humiliation_kink, r/RedditBDSM, r/bdsmconfessions, r/BDSMHelp, r/BDSMCouncil
u/BotDefense Active
Added 4 years ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1173 more...
u/ToucanInHand Active
Added 2 months ago

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2 weeks ago
Posts about/involving minors
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2 weeks ago
Rules for r/BDSMAdvice
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3 hours ago
BDSM in Long Term Relationships
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3 hours ago
Is a man having these kinks OK?
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3 hours ago
How to support my struggling Daddy? (And how to deal with my own loneliness)
to r/BDSMAdvice by dancingklara
3 hours ago
One “master” and his “harem of lovers”
to r/BDSMAdvice by TheThing-911
3 hours ago
Sub Gone silent after online session
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3 hours ago
Found a Local Dom on fetlife…where do I go next
to r/BDSMAdvice by Raeghyar-PB
3 hours ago
My CNC fantasy lost me a friend group
to r/BDSMAdvice by Initial-Fisherman181
3 hours ago
Wtf do I do massive hickies and bruises on my neck
to r/BDSMAdvice by True-Lengthiness5000
3 hours ago
New Sub seeking advice
to r/BDSMAdvice by perhaps-justask
3 hours ago
Have developed a new issue
to r/BDSMAdvice by pluggedboye
3 hours ago
Not feeling safe as a sub? Anxiety?
to r/BDSMAdvice by Nsfwees
3 hours ago
Need help with bdsm furniture
to r/BDSMAdvice by saaahhhdude
3 hours ago
Help with impact play toys
to r/BDSMAdvice by JustTheGirlYouSee
3 hours ago
Boyfriend (24m) said domming makes him feel uncomfortable
to r/BDSMAdvice by Azaxz
3 hours ago
What happens of you fall in love with your dom?
to r/BDSMAdvice by CalendarNo6655
3 hours ago
Partners past
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3 hours ago
Tips for anal
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3 hours ago
No BDSM with new boyfriend
to r/BDSMAdvice by Purple-Body7233
3 hours ago
How to punish a sub while long distance?
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3 hours ago
Kitten Play Recommendations
to r/BDSMAdvice by Full-Camp-6429
3 hours ago
Sub wants to initiate
to r/BDSMAdvice by Corgi1004
3 hours ago
5-7 hour 5 day BJ marathon. Any ideas to spice it up?
to r/BDSMAdvice by Double_Office9015
3 hours ago
Is having racial preferences race play.