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r/BDSMAdvice

411,595 subscribers
A warm, diverse, inclusive group of friendly, knowledgeable, kinky people. Here to provide assistance, education & relationship advice.
If you're looking for graphic content, or overtly sexual material, we're not the place for you.
Have an issue in your kinky relationship? Want to know more about a specific technique? Think you have a fetish, but don't know what to call it?
You're not alone. Ask us.

Moderators

Updated Nov 20, 2024
u/TeaAitch Active
Added 6 years ago
Also moderates: r/humiliation_kink, r/RedditBDSM, r/bdsmconfessions, r/BDSMHelp, r/FemKink, and 1 more...
u/KevinTurvey Active
Added 4 years ago
Also moderates: r/humiliation_kink, r/RedditBDSM, r/bdsmconfessions, r/BDSMHelp, r/BDSMCouncil
u/BotDefense Active
Added 4 years ago
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u/ToucanInHand Active
Added 2 months ago

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2 weeks ago
Posts about/involving minors
to r/BDSMAdvice by TeaAitch
2 weeks ago
Rules for r/BDSMAdvice
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12 hours ago
Question about impact play and marking
to r/BDSMAdvice by xgrayx_xgorex
12 hours ago
Advice on how to dom?
to r/BDSMAdvice by Large-Country-8577
12 hours ago
Mask Kink
to r/BDSMAdvice by lllllvl
12 hours ago
i am so confused and need advice about dom
to r/BDSMAdvice by Moist_Living_8970
12 hours ago
How do you dom/dommes display discipline to your sub
to r/BDSMAdvice by EmoSamus
12 hours ago
Dorm Self-bondage
to r/BDSMAdvice by Agreeable_Mess6711
12 hours ago
Is there a female version of cockwarming?
to r/BDSMAdvice by silkandperle
12 hours ago
Cuckolding Help
to r/BDSMAdvice by GodlyClementine
12 hours ago
Is it normal for your nipples to turn purple when clamped?
to r/BDSMAdvice by bustmeftm
12 hours ago
Why is the 18-35 age range grouped together a lot in the kink community?
to r/BDSMAdvice by Competitive-Mention8
12 hours ago
Humiliation kink?
to r/BDSMAdvice by Great_Discussion_345
12 hours ago
I’ve been telling my bf I want to be dominated for 18 months and nothing
to r/BDSMAdvice by Cautious-Winter-9285
12 hours ago
How do I degrade someone over text
to r/BDSMAdvice by temptedbyknowledge
12 hours ago
Thank you for making me feel comfortable here/ exploration
to r/BDSMAdvice by GuiltyKangaroo8631
12 hours ago
Long term cage use
to r/BDSMAdvice by Ok-Emu-8964
12 hours ago
I have a hemorrhoid and anal fissuresbut i want to use a buttplug..suggestions please
to r/BDSMAdvice by kinkyftmboyfriend
12 hours ago
How to be the best submissive partner?
to r/BDSMAdvice by bleepbloooopity
12 hours ago
Need help navigating my first play partner situation/ talking stage for play partner!
to r/BDSMAdvice by EvilynLandgren
12 hours ago
Trans girl sub "private area" sugestions
to r/BDSMAdvice by Low-Permission6476
12 hours ago
Deepthroating much bigger toy than usual
to r/BDSMAdvice by johnathanbanks786
12 hours ago
What should I do about my possibly mould infested suitcase?
to r/BDSMAdvice by Silliest_of_Gooses75
12 hours ago
My girlfriend wants our relationship to be free use. I have questions.
to r/BDSMAdvice by Kitchen_Tart_6399
12 hours ago
How do you manage a relationship with both people having a dominant side?