Your post title must have the following items in order

• your age
  
• the relationship type you're looking for either in brackets e.g. [F4M][M4F] in capital letters
  or as a flair
  
• your location (nearest large city & state), starting with a #
  
• a short description
  
  e.g. 19 [F4M] #Sunnydale, California - Strong blonde wants much older man for stake.

You need to name your location as:

1. nearest substantial city OR a county
   
2. US State OR Country
   
   You do not need to name your exact location. Pick a city within a reasonable travel distance.
   
   We allow some exceptions as shown in the examples:
   
   

• 24 [F4M] #LA - internationally famous city
  
• 26 [F4M] #Rhode Island - no need to name city as the state is small
  
• 25 [M4F] #Shanghai, China
  
• 50 [F4M] #Sydney, NSW, Australia

Please keep the title of your post reasonably SFW (Safe For Work). That means no four letter words among other things.

The content of your post can be as sexually graphic as you like, but if it is explicit you must mark your post as NSFW.

Please keep the title of your post SFW (Safe For Work). That means no four letter words, no sexual acts or terms, no descriptions of your genitals, and no derogatory names.

The content of your post can be as sexually graphic as you like, but if it is explicit you must mark your post as NSFW.

We appreciate you may want to be a little anonymous so we don't need your post/zip code, but we do want to know roughly where someone has to travel to meet you.

Please name your state and nearest large city. We will accept just your state if there are no large cities nearby and you don't feel comfortable naming a small one.

Acceptable:

• 26 [F4M] #Maine, USA - no large cities
  
• 25 [M4F] #Shanghai, China
  
• 50 [F4M] #Sydney, NSW, Australia

Please try not to spam /r/AgeGap. Please only post once every 72 hours (3 days), even if you delete your previous post.

If for some reason you feel you need to break this rule, message the moderators.

Posting has been restricted to one per 72 hours. (3 days) Deleting your previous post does not reset the timer. If you made a mistake in your post, you should edit it as opposed to deleting and reposting. We will not authorize or approve posts under the 72 hour limit without a very VERY good reason.

Using multiple accounts to get around the post limit will see both (or all) of your accounts banned.

Please keep the title of your post reasonably SFW (Safe For Work). That means no four letter words among other things.

The content of your post can be as sexually graphic as you like, but if it is explicit you must mark your post as NSFW.

^(Moderators can set content as NSFW, so are unlikely to remove such posts, but they cannot alter titles, so may remove posts with 'bad' titles.

Posts that are obviously more about money than a relationship will be removed.

Examples:

• seeking a "wealthy" or "generous" partner will not get you removed, but if your advert is more about the bucks than a relationship you will be removed
  
• seeking any form of payment for a sexual relationship will get you removed
  
• having an OnlyFans page is not a reason for removal providing you're seeking a relationship, creating a post which is just to get more traffic there is.

Reddit accounts that are used for commercial purposes, like OnlyFans advertising, Instagram influencers and other commercial entities are not permitted to post here.

Please use a private / personal account to engage with this community.

Reddit accounts that are used for commercial purposes, like OnlyFans advertising, Instagram influencers, sugar dating, premium services, or other commercial entities are not permitted to post here.

Please use a private / personal account not affiliated with your commercial endeavors to engage with this community. Selling or directing to premium services in DM or chat will also see your account banned if the recipient brings it to the attention of the moderators.

We only accept posts and comments from 'real' people. Any images you post must be of yourself or clearly marked as not you.

If you believe someone is catfishing or fake, do not report it, but message the moderators with any evidence you have

We will ban fake posters if and only if we get convincing information to corroborate.

We only accept posts and comments from 'real' people. Any images you post must be of yourself.

If you believe someone is catfishing or fake, do not report it, but message the moderators with any evidence you have.

If you are banned for this, be prepared to verify yourself if you send a ban appeal.

Comments such as

• PM/DM me or Lets chat
  
• sent you a message
  
  Will be removed by the automoderator or by us if you are clever enough to escape the automoderator.
  
  If you want to chat to someone you have to PM/ DM them yourself

We do not allow real email addresses or other non reddit contact information in posts or comments. The approved way of contacting someone is through a PM (Message) or DM (Chat)

Politeness is required. If you can't be nice, don't say anything.

If there is a real problem with a post or comment, report it or message the moderators.

This is so the moderators can decide whether to take remedial action.

This subreddit is for individuals seeking genuine, offline encounters.

It's perfectly fine to mention that you prefer to get to know someone online before meeting, but please keep in mind that this is not a subreddit for roleplaying partners, virtual affairs, emotional online support, penpals, or sexting.

There are plenty of other subreddits for exactly these things.

We do not allow real email addresses or other non reddit contact information in posts or comments. The approved way of contacting someone is through a PM (Message) or DM (Chat)

You must be at least 18 to post on this subreddit.

People lying about their age by a significant margin will also be banned.

Posts which overtly seek someone under 18 will be removed.

For example,

• looking for someone 16-20 is not okay.
  
• looking for someone under 20 is okay.

We recognise, particularly in the current situation, that people can't always meet face to face. However this is not the place for people to post who are not seeking a 'genuine' relationship, and we suggest you go to somewhere like /r/dirtyPenpals instead. We are not a place to seek fake relationships or role play.

^(we've changed this rule recently. The moderators will remove your post if they don't feel what you're looking for is a 'genuine' relationship)

In the interests of limiting spam, there are account age and other restrictions on posting.

Current requirements:

Account age: 1 week for posting
Karma: undisclosed for security reasons.

If your account gets suspended or banned or there is any other reason we suspect your account is not "real" we will remove your post/comment

We used to accept posts by those age 16/17 who were over the age of consent in their state but as a result of a recent dialog with Reddit admins we regret we can no longer do so. The minimum age for posting on this subreddit is now 18

Posts/ comments from those over 18 which overtly seek someone under 18 will be removed.

For example,

• looking for someone 16-20 is not okay.
  
• looking for someone under 20 is okay

You must be at least 18 to post on this subreddit.

We do not expect complete honesty about your age but we will remove posts by people lying about their age by a significant margin or by anyone pretending to be over 18.

Posts/ comments from those over 18 which overtly seek someone under 18 will be removed.

For example,

• looking for someone 16-20 is not okay.
  
• looking for someone under 20 is okay

Images may not feature genitalia.

The set of pictures in your gallery must be of you and sufficient for someone to gain a general impression of your physique. You can blur/hide your face and any other marks which easily identify you.

The mods reserve the right to remove any post/comment and/or to ban users that they don't like for any reason whatsoever, so please be responsible in what you say in here.

We do not allow pictures or photos that do not show the person advertising in a meaningful way. This rules out pictures/videos showing movie scenes, anime characters, just sex toys, genitalia without significant parts of the rest of the body and similar pictures that are not helpful in making an educated guess about the physical appearance of the poster.

The first/main image may not feature your cock/pussy.

The set of pictures in your gallery must be of you and sufficient for someone to gain a general impression of your physique. You can blur/hide your face and any other marks which easily identify you.