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r/toastme

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Welcome to r/ToastMe! We are the polar opposite of r/RoastMe - only genuine and unique compliments by awesomely nice people are allowed here.


You don't have to state a reason why you want to be toasted! This sub is not only about being there for each other in bad times, but also to celebrate life and the good things that happen to you!


r/ToastMe is **NOT** affiliated with any product, app, external sites or other subreddits SFW OR NSFW. We will not promote such.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/toastme by Joji147
5 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 26 M Been Facing A Lot of Relationship Changes and Grief and Would Love Some Kindness image
26 M Been Facing A Lot of Relationship Changes and Grief and Would Love Some Kindness
to r/toastme by Treefiddy350053
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for 27M Holding my head high tackling the first day of separation after my wife told me she didn’t love me anymore. Any positivity is appreciated! image
27M Holding my head high tackling the first day of separation after my wife told me she didn’t love me anymore. Any positivity is appreciated!
to r/toastme by konkoy1978
6 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 46M I've lost 30 pounds in 2024, need to lose 20 more image
46M I've lost 30 pounds in 2024, need to lose 20 more
to r/toastme by Ok-Show-44
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for 30M, faced a lot of negative energy and adversity lately. Could use a toast! image
30M, faced a lot of negative energy and adversity lately. Could use a toast!
to r/toastme by 4stringmaniac
2 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 40/m, recently divorced. Please toast me, I could use it. image
40/m, recently divorced. Please toast me, I could use it.
to r/toastme by throwawaysub5scum
2 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 30/M. Never been in a relationship. Always been made fun of because of my looks. I feel unloveable. image
30/M. Never been in a relationship. Always been made fun of because of my looks. I feel unloveable.
to r/toastme by whydonald
2 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 27m carliving, struggling to stay positive image
27m carliving, struggling to stay positive
to r/toastme by machineheaddavidian
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for Struggling very hard with severe depression lately, and feeling very worthless and ugly. Could really use some kind words image
Struggling very hard with severe depression lately, and feeling very worthless and ugly. Could really use some kind words
to r/toastme by TrueInDueTime
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for I have felt great ever since a couple of weeks ago when I needed another surgery for the first time in 9 years (blood growths that pop up in or around my mouth) image
I have felt great ever since a couple of weeks ago when I needed another surgery for the first time in 9 years (blood growths that pop up in or around my mouth)
to r/toastme by Designer-Professor16
3 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for Lonely on Christmas Eve in sunny Florida, divorced, kids at ex’s, no gf. Feeling down (45m) image
Lonely on Christmas Eve in sunny Florida, divorced, kids at ex’s, no gf. Feeling down (45m)
in Christmas, FL
to r/toastme by TBoogieeee
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for Build me up, buttercup image
Build me up, buttercup
to r/toastme by Tiny-Psychology-9653
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for Feeling it today image
Feeling it today
to r/toastme by Vanilla-estSecks
3 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for Life has me way down. Help me up? image
Life has me way down. Help me up?
to r/toastme by SignificantFreud
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for Toast me - I’m just struggling regulating my emotions and dysphoria stuff lately. image
Toast me - I’m just struggling regulating my emotions and dysphoria stuff lately.
to r/toastme by alycanadian
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for My ex left me because of my line mark on my nose, toast me! image
My ex left me because of my line mark on my nose, toast me!
to r/toastme by ddeseos
3 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for Toast me - 6mo postpartum, forgot how to socialize. image
Toast me - 6mo postpartum, forgot how to socialize.
to r/toastme by Weeewooo03
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for Feeling really down kind words appreciated ❤️ f21 image
Feeling really down kind words appreciated ❤️ f21
to r/toastme by WeakAbbreviations27
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for Dumped 3 months ago by an avoidant. I’m 37(M) image
Dumped 3 months ago by an avoidant. I’m 37(M)
to r/toastme by Internal-Essay-2750
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for recently got kicked out (twice) really needing some nice words image
recently got kicked out (twice) really needing some nice words
to r/toastme by LokiPlz
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 36m. Trapped in a city I don't like for the last 8 years. Overweight, health issues. Depressed and Alone. image
36m. Trapped in a city I don't like for the last 8 years. Overweight, health issues. Depressed and Alone.
to r/toastme by RealShootingDragon
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 21M. Struggling in all areas of life. Could use some love or encouragement. image
21M. Struggling in all areas of life. Could use some love or encouragement.
to r/toastme by pisiTEK
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for Really struggling mentally - losing half of your hair under just a year will do that to you 😕 image
Really struggling mentally - losing half of your hair under just a year will do that to you 😕
to r/toastme by Weak-Positive4377
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for In a very low point in my life, ex made me feel repulsive to the world around me. And job market hasn't been kind, could really use a smile or a laugh image
In a very low point in my life, ex made me feel repulsive to the world around me. And job market hasn't been kind, could really use a smile or a laugh
to r/toastme by OldSchoolScoundrel5
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for Heartbroken and completely alone. My life is darkness. Shine some light? image
Heartbroken and completely alone. My life is darkness. Shine some light?
to r/toastme by a-chickadee13
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 23F - currently on week 2 of 4 at rehab for opioid addiction of 8 years. Having a hard time being here and want to go home. image
23F - currently on week 2 of 4 at rehab for opioid addiction of 8 years. Having a hard time being here and want to go home.