Please see our rules/community standards
Updates:
Now introducing flairs to easily sort posts for interest.
Added a missed connection flair for stories you might want to share about a missed connection, to outreach our community.(maybe a hot grey sweats free baller you saw at Costco? who could be a sub here 😏)
Added Verified Encounter to shout out a member you met and had fun.
Moderators
Subreddit Rules
No private messages without expressed permission in a post first.
To maintain respect, among community do not message someone without asking in their post first or letting them know they can message.
This is not monitored, but will be removed if reported. It will be up to the banned user to dispute, if they were removed for this reason.
Men seeking women "Maintaining Boundaries" proper group etiquette.
Our group is for men seeking women. If someone is persistent commenting a post or reaching to you privately, and those comments persists unwelcomed, violators will be removed. Men and women joined a room for male seeking female for a reason and boundaries will be respected. If a person identified as trans and this is unwelcomed please message moderators and a courtesy message will be delivered to the offending party. Further violations will be banned.
No Spam/scam/money seeking will be tolerated.
Our group is not a place to advertise directly or indirectly promoting sale of content or adult services. No pay to play. If reported, post will be flaired as spam. Repeated reports will result in a ban. If a user repeatedly is reported as posting to multiple subredits but does not interact, it could be interpreted as spam, and will need to be discussed with a mod if posts or account are removed for this reason.
Transgender participation
For trans women or men who identify as trans this means you live, and identify as female / male full time. We ask you disclose in a tag, posting title, or in your profile. Post/responses made by those who dress up as women/men that dont identify as that gender, (sissy, cross dresser) we would remind you the group is expressly men seeking women. All of the above are subject to respecting boundaries. People have different level of tolerance and the group commited to maintaining those boundaries.
Men seeking men
Please be respectful to the purpose of our sub-reddit. We welcome all to appreciate one another in adult fun, but respecting boundaries is key. If you make a comment on a post just realize it might not be welcomed. Much like in couples groups, there are rules for single men, ours is expressly men seeking women, and women seeking men. So our group we ask boundaries be respected. Violations will be addressed case by case and can be disputed if a ban was made in violation of this rule.
Abuse
There will be no abuse to any person(s) on a basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. We do have guidelines and processes to mitigate unwelcomed messages or boundaries not being respected. This is a male for female group. We can explain to a person easy why something was unwanted and should stop. Being abusive or discriminatory isn't a part of that process and will be banned. If you were banned but had politely told someone you weren't interested. Please let us know and dispute.
Age
By being a part of this reddit you agree you are of legal consenting age. There is zero tolerance of this policy, you will be removed if reported by anyone not of legal age. Disputing may require proof of legal age if you were reported incorrectly.
Comment/content removal
If a comment was removed, it may be because the poster or another person who read the comments or posted feels you broke a rule, crossed boundaries, or didn't meet the community standards. Feel free to reach a moderator if your message was removed for this reason, for clarification.
Privacy
Any reported violations of our community standards, rules, or abuse policy will be maintained with total privacy. We will only provide your information if you give permission. Any complaints submitted will remain with confidentiality unless otherwise stated. It will be the responsibility of the person who was in violation of a rule and action taken to dispute it as valid or not. If no response provided we will assume you understood violation and will no longer be participating in our community.
Joining our moderator team (Message mod if interested!)
Must maintain a fair approach on the community in a diverse community of sub-redditers. Maintain active participation. Have invited members or promoted our group. Committed to maintain/enforce the rules for group integrity.
Communicate between moderators of changes or bans. Foster a fun, drama free, adult atmosphere.
May also be a person looking to organize a group Outting or smaller gatherings.
Couples
If a profile poses/posts as a couple and demanding photos, showing a trend of photo collecting, you will be asked to provide photo proof you're a couple. Holding a letter of both partners with our subreddit name and date to requesting mod.
Men will not be tolerated using a couple account to lure others into sharing photos they wouldn't otherwise share with just a single man. Instead profiles should post proof on posts if they are a couple to ease concern, not demand photos for consideration.
Verified Encounters
Cannot speak poorly about someone you've met here, only used for positive encounters. Used to encourage and shout someone out, or share of an amazing time(s) They must consent to a public group shout out. Not used to shame or take away anonymity or discretion from anyone. All posts requested for removal by a recipient will be honored if privacy or community standards wasn't respectfully maintained.