I have a couple of posts regarding my current situation, but it has been a few weeks. So the update is this. There has been NO text to him in 11 days. There have been no FB msg confessions to another one of her employees regarding the whole situation in around the same time. We've had sex on Not-A-Wednesday, and today we will be going on our 'First Date' in 9 years. Going to lunch and then to a tea shop. Not a lot of time because of life, etc, but it's a start. Delusional? Maybe. But I prefer to call it...hopeful. I don't have blinders on, I am still aware of the situation as a whole, but we have to start somewhere. TO GET WHERE YOU WANT TO GO, YOU HAVE TO BE TRUTHFUL OF WHERE YOU ARE STARTING!