I've always suspected my partner of many years (we have been married for 10) of at the very least, emotional cheating. I found the conversations a few times. I made a mistake and had a one time indiscretion in January of last year. One that never will be forgiven, as it shouldn't. My spouse disclosed recently that he has slept with 20 women since then (4 of which had been brought home, without my knowledge). He was also dating one somewhat long term while he was away on FL (she was a coworker and they basically "lived together" during that time). I'm struggling so badly with forgiving it, but I know I owe it to him to move forward for the sake of marriage and our daughter. I am going to therapy. My therapist asks why would you want to forgive it, the likelihood is your husband will do it again. I'm trying so hard to make it work, but I do not trust him which isn't fair to him. How do I move forward with him together?