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Did NOT “Survive Infidelity”. Is sex during separation ok?
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38F divorcing 44M.

Long story short, a year ago I was using his MacBook & saw a barage of extremely sexual texts.

There is NO hope of reconciliation.

He moved out Oct 26 & I finally filed last week (should take 4-6 months to finalize).

Now that he’s gone, my sex drive has come back full throttle.

Upon separating, I told him I was “officially open to dating”, but that I wouldn’t cross a line until the divorce was final.

I meant it at the time, but I feel differently after filing, & it’s been 1 year since I’ve enjoyed sex.

What are your thoughts on sex during separation? Will this make me “as bad as him”? Worse? Should I tell him if I do, or is it none of his business?

I’m sorry if this has been discussed before, but im as horny as I am conflicted & would appreciate some perspective.

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