I found out about more cheating he hid from me and lied about (lies of omission are still major lies, to me). We've been working so hard on building trust in couples therapy for the last few months and it was going well. I really was believing that things were better. I have no idea how to start rebuilding trust for the third time.

I've been crying on and off since yesterday. I can't remember the last time I felt this angry about something.

I love him but I can't live the rest of my life stumbling into more surprise proof of him cheating on me. Our kids shouldn't grow up having this be their formative example of how to treat a partner.

When did you know you were done? What made it feel concrete?