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It is a very long story but my husband discovering several new kinks and his bisexuality are all wrapped up together in the online emotional affair he had. Now he still looks at the porn he was sharing and looking at and talking about with the AP. His affair had a few spin off shows, all revolving around these kinks. Now he still consumes a ton of that porn. I am really struggling with it. Itās liked not only is there the usual insecurity some women feel around their partner and porn, but itās also that the content is justā¦ triggering to me now, I guess? Before all this I couldnāt have cared any less if he watched porn or not. I hate that how it makes me feel so anxious and insecure, but it doesnāt feel right to police somebodyās porn consumption. No amount of saying āif you start watching this porn again Iām going to leaveā would convince he isnāt just hiding it anyways. So there isnāt much point in even suggesting he stop. But I really donāt think I can stomach knowing heās still spending all that time seeking it out and looking at it and following the creators on twitter for much longer. Itās really fucking me up.
How have you handled porn in your post infidelity relationship?
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