Is it normal for the cheater to expect you to "just get over it"? Or, if you do decide to take them back and make it work and ever express that it still hurts, "you let me come back so i don't know what to tell you". My life was good, i thought i found a great partner. Come to find out, she couldn't get over her ex. I caught her in lies about a communication between the two. I thought it was normal to get upset, maybe even raise my voice about the situation. That led to her hopping in his bed. And the reason was because i was mad and scared her..... I wonder why i was mad. And I'm guessing that her reaction was supposed to make it better? No, more mad. That, in turn, was why she stayed with him a month. Oh, I left out the marriage proposal, after less than a week, and her telling me how much she wanted me back, missed, and loved me, all the while she was the one who picked out the rings for their wedding!! Please, correct me if I'm wrong, but this doesn't seem like normal, healthy human behavior in a relationship.

Edit: Forgot to mention that she also abandoned her poor cat to go back with ole boy. Would say, "He's fine, he is a smart cat". Not even remorse for an innocent animal.