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girlfriend dancing with ex ?
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I am 6 months in a great relationship.. So far best relationship for me ever in my life. Since the beginning we are very honest with each other, expressing our feelings, and needs and saying the truth. Also, she is visiting me all the time from a different town (300 km away) and she is planning to relocate to me next year. In the beginning, she told me about good contacts with all her ex. I was OK with it because in I didn't have so many feelings at that time for her now. Slowly she started to cut contact with some of them, there is only one guy she sees in the dancing class. I told her how I felt about that, and that hurt me….. She said about plans to finish this course(6 more classes) and how she doesn't have the intention to go on more dancing classes.

But still, even after making a compromise, i don't feel good about that. When she told me today about going to class, I don't say anything to her, but I could feel my jealousy and anger how raising up.

Jealousy, and anger, are some of the traits which I am working on the last few years. Also, after doing some attachment tests recognized as fearful avoidant and secure . And this thing about dancing just puts suspicious thoughts in my mind.

But before all, I am on my healing journey, and I know many traits which I need to heal. But where is the line? How would you react with your partner in this case ? How I should take care of myself more?

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