I don’t know how to really put this me (23 m) and my gf (22) have been together for 4 years we have an interesting dynamic but do to her past sexual things were pretty much off the table I respected that I always told her i didn’t really care by that it would be nice once and a while but not important had a feeling she wasn’t being completely honest with me due to some things I’ve seen but was told it’s nothing and her being secretive about things i might be in the wrong for it but I just had to know I had a friend test her she was super flirty and agreed to sexual games (even though nothing happened) pretty much immediately it makes me think what does she do with her “friends” she has no idea that I know any suggestions on how I go about this