I sometimes cringe when my husband touches me

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I can get in the mood for sex when I’m not being touched. Giving him a bj gets me going every time and then the sec is good. However, if he tries to touch me, kiss my neck, etc, I physically cringe sometimes. Sometimes it is ok, but often I can’t do it.

I don’t have any sexual trauma in my past that I remember, and my husband has never been abusive or anything of the sort.

Any ideas as to what is going on and what I need to do to fix whatever is going on in my head and body? I don’t know why I can’t figure it out nor connect to the feelings and emotions.

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