I realize it's only the second date and super low stakes, but I feel bad. We went on our first date about a week and a half ago and just had a couple drinks. It was good, I thought I wanted to see her again and told her so. We hugged after the date but she texted me and said she actually wanted to kiss me. I told her I almost did kiss her and should have, but will next time.

Anyways, in the week and a half since she has been texting me all the time, it's part of, but not the only thing making me reconsider. I have to hold back my replies because I know I'm going to get another text within 5 minutes and then have to reply to that. I'm not a big texter and generally use it just to make plans (yes, I know, I should tell her that). For now I'm playing along even if I am delaying my responses.

It just seems like she is much more into this than I am. While I wouldn't mind going on a second date it would be more of a "do I really want to continue to see this girl?" kind of date and not some "omg I think this could be the one, this girl is amazing" type of date. It feels like she might be thinking the opposite.

We already have a date planned at the end of the week but I'm wondering if I should really go on it or not. I wouldn't mind seeing her again and think we could have a good time, but if we're on the date and I realize it's not it while she's just super into it it's going to be awkward. I told her I'd kiss her but what if I realize I don't really want to? Ugh. I guess I just have to tell her I've realized it's not actually the connection I thought it could be. Just feels so lame as I've already agreed and planned a second date. Now I'm going back on that. But probably better than actually going on it...