i’ll preface this by saying i’m not upset by this statement, i’m just trying to logically internalize this bc i learned different growing up. we had a great convo i wasn’t hurt about necessarily, i just would like to understand better. we have had MANY mmf threesomes, and maybe would like to do mff, but i have this mindset id like to work around first.

basically it was the statement that we could see a regular person that was megan-fox-level-pretty, and he could find her attractive but even though he could find her attractive/maybe she’s even scientifically more attractive than me, he’d still find me MORE attractive because he loves and cares for me.

i really would like to have a ffm three way (i’m bi) so it’s not coming from a place of me being controlling, but i can’t seem to understand this mindset, and i’d really like to adopt it so i can experiment sexually the way i’d like! so feel free to share your opinion/outlook, because maybe the way husband is explaining it isn’t getting through like someone else’s would!