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So my fwb (29F) have been acting more and more distant. Lately, she even started to ignore my text. I’m (25M) used to her responding me instantly or taking a 12-14 hour responding to me, but now she don’t even took the time to respond to me and I see her active. Before, when she wasn’t replying, I never used to see her activethat mutch when she wasn’t responding.
We used to have fun conversation between meetup (since our humor is pretty mutch the same), but now she don’t even participate in this kind of conversation. I know she have a busy life and I try let her time to respond, but I can’t stop feeling left out.
I confronted her last week about it (after she only sent me two text in 4 days) and she apologized and told me she wasn’t a big text person. We even meetup the same night. But this week, she have being doing the same thing and I have seeing her online on top of that. I was supposed to meet her today, but she have yet to answered me. I don’t wanna confront her about it again.
She told me that she like my company, that she found me fucking funny and that she love my personality, but sometimes it’s hard to see it online when she acting so distant. Can’t stop thinking if something is wrong sometime.
I know I need to work on my anxiety a little and I been doing some progress (I don’t double text her, I don’t always respind to her immediately and I don’t ask her for meetup too often (like maybe once a week) even though she did say to me that we could di it more often. The confrontation was a one time thing. Also, when I’m with her in person, I don’t feel anxious at all so I mainly have to work on it online. (So if you tips for that, you’re welcome).
(English is not my first language, so sorry for the grammar errors).
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