Recently the person I have been seeing (who has been dating around to find a long term partner) told me she wanted to stop pursuing anything romantic with me for the time being. She said this primarily because I lacked the financial stability and ability to show that I can provide for her. Besides this particular weakness, we have a very strong connection and I meet/exceed all of her other non-negotiable standards (in ways that I know other guys can’t really). I am very, very convinced that this person is someone I could build a very strong and enduring relationship and am committed to addressing the weaknesses she has highlighted. I have been making many changes regarding my finances and have faith that I will be at a comfortable spot to date/court her the way she desires in about 3-4 months.

If I am able to show her the growth and transformation of this weakness, do y’all think it is worth trying to woo her again when I’m a much more eligible candidate?

PS I have never felt so strongly about another person and would do anything to show her the depth of my love and my desire to treat her like the queen that she is.