So a while ago a freind of mine realised I have a "type" and a hero complex. I tend to attract and be attracted to broken and chaotic people, the more cute airy and pixie like the better apparently. Actually she is into the TTRPG "vampire the masquerade" and originally laughed at me saying I was into "Malkavians", and while I laughed along at first, that hurt.

But I ended up breaking things off with some people I was seeing because we realised that perhaps none of us were ideal for our mental health, because of course I can't actually fix anyone, and trying to all the time isn't healthy. I kind felt a bit ick too as I felt like it was predatory of me? Idk. Anyway I'm single now but I want to know how to break out of my type