To start out sorry if i mess up first post! I 33m am having serious problems with my wife 36f. We have been married for 6 years together for 8. I love my wife but for the last year or more she has really been pushing me away with her bad attitude and for even longer with her lack of intimacy. She asks a lot of me and I feel like whenever I ask for something it gets rejected and if I say something about it her reply is then I won't ask you anymore instead of just putting some effort in to doing something for me. I constantly get talked down to nothing is ever good enough. my self estimate is talking a huge hit I have not been this depressed in a long time. I feel alone and taken advantage of. I don't want to get a divorce I want to work it out but every time we talk about it after a couple days she will say sorry and she understands how I feel. Nothing ever really changes. She is super stubborn and opinionated and I don't have the energy to change her opinion. Do I give up before I loose my shit?