So ive (32m) been with my.significant other (32f) for 11 years and things are eh. When ever i try to bring up how i feel about (highly depressed and what not). She keeps telling my life is great and i should stop and take a look at things, mean while she seems to be failing to understand that its not the material things tha are bothering me. As ive explained to her its the emotional and physical parts. I feel like friends who live together, we havnt kissed in over a year and theres no intimacy. I pretty much have to beg to have any and we all know how that goes so ive stopped trying all together. Now its bringing me to the point where ive been wanting to seek that attention else where. And advice is appreciated. But like i saod ive tryed talking amd explaing and she just machs me or doesnt take me serioud.