We’ve been together for 5 years married for almost 2 years and I’m slowly but surely loosing interest in this relationship due to our sexual life. I absolutely love and adore this man and we have a child together. However every time I try to imitate sex I’m shot down, I do mean every time, for example I dress up in sexy lingerie and still get turned down. I try to spice things up with a game(granted no one is forcing us to do anything in this game and we aren’t going to die if we don’t achieve every sexual position attainable in this game) he isn’t interested and said I’m not doing this. I try to love on him to get things going and nothing he ends up going to sleep. I have a very high libido and could pounce at any moment anywhere!!! I’ve brought this up numerous times that it hurts my feelings that every time I want a sexual encounter he doesn’t reciprocate it but if he wants to get freaky I never turn him down unless I’m being petty to prove a point which is very seldom. He doesn’t try to please me during sexual encounters, he just jumps right in to fucking, no foreplay or nothing. I literally Play with my vibrator on a daily to resist from walking out on this marriage. I know sex isn’t all marriage is but for me it’s also a huge part of me feeling loved. Touch is my love language. I enjoy touching even if it’s not with sexual intentions every time. He never touches me anymore and I just don’t know what to do.