My boyfriend [24] & I [F/21] have been together like 2ish years now. We both had a kid from a prior relationship, and we had one together this last February. When we first got together we banged like rabbits & I was very freaky. He's into pegging and stuff, I was happy to oblige and it turned me on. Ever since my pregnancy, my sex drive has died and took my freaky side along with it. Even when I'm in the mood, I just want to make it quick so I can finish and get it over with. Foreplay feels weird, I just can't get my head in the game anymore.

I can tell it bothers him. Tonight he tried to surprise me and wanted me to peg him, and when he realized I wasn't in the mood I could see it upset him because he was so excited. I've tried to force myself to do stuff and it just doesn't help. I've voiced to him that I don't have much of a sex drive anymore, but I just don't know how to get back to where I can please him. He says it's fine, but I can tell he misses how I was before and I want that fire back. I don't even send dirty pictures or anything really now. Suggestions on how I can get my head back in the game? Suggestions on just helping him feel better? I don't really know what exactly is being asked here, but I just need help handling this situation. I feel like I'm too young to have this much of a sexual issue in my relationship.