Hey everybody this is my first time posting here, mostly because I'm not sure what to do. My friend who is getting married, let's call him Joe, later this year is a really good guy. However his fiance has some red flags that the rest of our group and I have realized in the very few times we've interacted with her.

One of the more recent ones was when Joe was supposed to clean some dishes, but he ran out of time before having to go to work. She gets home and immediately gets very angry. Texting him how he's not doing the things he's supposed to do, and about how all she wants to do after work is relax. Also that she can't because the house stinks because of some noodles in the sink or something.

We also feel like she really doesn't like us(me and our friend group) very much. She doesn't really like our sense of humor, and never really wanted to hang out with us at all really. I've only interacted with her like three times in the ~2 years they've been dating.

I feel like I'm in a tough spot right now because I want to tell him all this because we all kind of agree that she isn't the nicest person. Joe on the other hand really does like her a lot, but idk if it's reciprocated at all beyond sexual stuff. Their wedding is coming up soon and I just don't know if I should tell him or not what I feel about her. Any advice is appreciated.