25M (me) and 26F. Ages now.

Met this girl at an old job. There ended up being a group of us who would hang out outside of work and became somewhat close, mostly hanging out for birthdays and such. I always felt closer with her tho.

We had very similar senses of humour, tastes in music, we were both fairly introverted and bonded on our lack of experience in the dating scene. She kinda made me feel a little better about being single despite my woes because she seemed to be so positive and confident in the fact that she didn't need to search for a relationship, at least not at that point in her life.

A couple years went by where we'd text at least once a week, sometimes more, despite the group hangouts kinda trailing off. We hung out a few times just us too. We were always just friends.

And then something weird happened; albeit, we were really close. She started getting super comfortable and descriptive talking about how she was very very...horny. I couldn't tell if this was a sign which seemed glaringly obvious, or if I was a just like a male gal pal she was sharing with. Now I feel like it was the latter.

I—like and idiot, in retrospect, I guess—told her that I wasn't opposed to helping her out with her issue. She declined. I moved away from it.

We kept talking for months after that, but looking back, that might have been the turning point in our relationship. Because she started getting more distant and eventually became a ghost. It really hurts. We were really close.

I just feel like it's been eating away at me and if nothing else, just wanted to type this all out. It's now been months that she hasn't responded to me. The few messages I sent were basically just telling her how much I'd appreciate her telling me how she is and why she's not responding to me. What do you think of this situation as an outsider?

Tl;dr: Good friends with a girl, she ends up ghosting me, it bothers me to this day