hey, redditors of this subreddit. i want to be as clear as possible because i really want things to become alright. i (19m) have a female friend (18f) who i had a very good - i even think platonic - friendship. months ago she stopped asking me how i am and stopped texting me to spend time with her. we just met because i started all the convos. then i started to critisize small things when i didn't even realize that this was a one-sided friendship. this went a few months like this. then she didn't want me to text her again because she needed a break. the break lasted 2 months and then she texted me. we met to talk. we started a 'new' friendship but she isn't as interested as me in meeting a bit more often than back then. this is going 2 weeks like that now. we just met once since then and twice with another friend. but i just know i'm texting her too much again like a few months ago. she also doesn't want to hug although that wasn't a problem in the time of the platonic friendship. now i don't really know how to handle my thoughts. she just seems like she isn't that interested in a deep friendship like we had back last year. what do i do to get that back? (this is not even toxic) i just have no interest in completely new friendship with other people.) anything but cutting her off would help. thank you :)