Okay so there’s so much to this and it goes back a few years so I won’t be able to fit it all in this post but here we go. So my gf and me started dating in high school in grade 10 for her grade 11 for me. Her family hated me, and treated me awfully. I wish I knew why or what I did but I really don’t know or understand nor does my gf. In 2020 I had cancer and her mother (who is the only one who still doesn’t like me) said i deserve it and she hopes I die. I didn’t and I’m now cancer free but ever since then I really just haven’t interacted with her.

So earlier this week her mother and her got into a fight which for my gf was the last straw. Her mother has told her she’s worthless a failure a waste of space a demon a waste of life. Even tho my gf is in uni and started a business (2 to be exact one with me one on her own) volunteers and works she said she does nothing with her life unless she breaks up with me. Mind you I’ve asked my gf if she wants to break up or isn’t happy with me or being with me and she says she is happy with me and doesn’t want to break up.

So earlier this week her mother said if you won’t break up with him get out and my gf said fine after being threatened to not be able to sleep inside eat or use anything inside the house. So my gf called me and said she can’t take she was crying and begged me to help her so I said she can come live with me and she wanted that so she did. This is after years of this shit and getting to the point where she was suicidal and depressed. Even once she had a serious infection and needed to go the hospital and her mother refused to take her.

All in all I and her have been made to feel horrible about our relationship and now I was told how awful I am for her coming to live with me. So my question is am I horrible? Is this all my fault?