Hey, me (20F) and my boyfriend (22M) are in a relationship since one year by now. I really love having sexual intercourses with him, sex, jerking him off, playing with each other etc. Just sometimes I don't feel like it (especially when he wants to do it for the third time in a day or whatever) so I refuse and rather want to do something else. Doesn't of course mean that I don't wanna be close to him or would hate sexual intercourse with him...but he immediately interprets it like that. He's saying that, since I love him, I should always want to be close to him like that and something must be wrong with my sexuality. And yeah, I love him very much but sometimes I just don't feel like it and that doesn't mean that I'd suddenly love him less. Guess I don't wanna disappoint him in refusing but I also don't wanna get forced into sexual contact with him. I don't know how to explain my feelings to him without hurting him.