There's a lot of back history, but she decided it would be cool to go stay with her ex in Baltimore for 3 months, so I tried to end it with her many times because i was eventually fed up with her saying that I was just being insecure and nonsensical and toxic. I ended sleeping with someone. I don't cheat, in my mind we were broken up because in kept telling her we were. It takes two too be in a relationship. When she came back, I was open to giving it another try, but she interrupts me constantly, doesn't care about my opinions, or interests and shuts me down constantly. She never compliments me or tells me anything good. So when she called me to tell me about someone guy she thought was hot at the bank, I lost it and told her to fuck off, I don't know why she would call and tell me that. Then she preceded to call me insecure. I told her that this anger was coming from months of her not doing anything at all positive for me or to me. She called me disgusting for cheating on her and that i had no room to talk and it meant nothing, just her saying a guy was "hot as fuck." I responded with, it's all the other shit that she does, but she told me to fuck off and that I disgust her now.