Hear me out for a second. I believe I'm a nice dude. I'm polite to people when I first meet them. I tip my service staff ( waiters, and delivery people, food cart staff,ect.) And I'm pretty good at starting conversations but I seam to have trouble finding a girlfriend. Most of my exes have been great (still friends with some of them) but we just end up wanting different things from life. My needs are simple and More about me getting a person I know I can completely let my guard down with and them getting a positive, witty muse like companion that always has their back and my undying support than anything sexual (yes sex and looks are a factor for me but let's be blunt they are for everyone. don't go throwing stones from that glass house of yours) anyways I refuse to pay for any kind of dating sites and while I have no issues with flirting I feel like always either I forget to leave my number or I don't realize until I Walk away. Also I there's a clerk at my local grocery store that's super cute and puts out good vibes but I'm worried she's not single and unfortunately creepy dudes have ruined the concept of just straight up asking a girl you find interesting if she's single or not