Should I tell my boyfriend I love him or should I keep it to my self

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I (28f) have been dating my boyfriend (30m) for about 6 months. I am pretty sure I love him but don't necessarily want to tell him when we talked about love before he is slow to say it and I am worried If I say it before he is ready he will feel pressured to say it back. I don't want him to feel pressured. I have an avoidant attachment style and I am prone to run away. I am learning to trust in this relationship and think I can. I am worried that saying I love you to him may derail what we have. Should I let him know my feelings or keep them to my self?

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