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Is there any point in starting a relationship that's going to become long distance?
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I'm (22M) catching hard feels for her (19F) but I'm worried about starting an official relationship because I don't think it will lead to anything. We met through mutual friends and I thought it was just going to be a hookup thing but we hit it off immediately and have been meeting every other day for the past few weeks. I've had a lot of flings and hookups this past year with a very anti-relationship mindset but she completely caught me off guard, I've never caught feelings like this. The sex is otherworldly too, she can finish 2-3 times and we're both very receptive of each other. The problem is that I'm graduating in Fall 2022 and she is planning on pursuing a doctorate after she graduates, meaning that this will turn into a long-term long-distance relationship for about 7 years. We both live in the same state as our university but there's no guarantee she'll go to grad school anywhere close by. Am I setting myself up for failure? Is it unethical to start a relationship knowing that we may end up breaking up in the winter? Could we just agree to an expiration date and see how it goes?

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