so i was with my ex for about a year and a half and she was the first person that i have truly loved. i thought i have loved other women before, but this girl was definitely the only person i have truly loved. we broke up over a year ago and she was instantly hanging out with another guy and it was a very rough time. i was horrible for around 4 months constantly thinking about her. i eventually started talking to another girl and she really helped me get over my ex. her and i never lasted into anything serious, but we ended on good terms and as friends. it’s been probably 7-8 months since then. and throughout that whole time, i never thought about my ex. for some reason though, i’ve lately been thinking about her. i have no idea why, especially knowing how i had no intentions of ever getting back with her after realizing all of the problems that we had towards the end of our relationship. why am i suddenly thinking about her again and missing what we used to have? i would like to talk to her again and catch up with life because i have started college and more stuff and we were extremely close, but i don’t think i want to text her because of what could possibly happen. just wanted some advice on why this is happening.