So I have some issues with communication and my wife doesn't like to deal with bullshit from me. She wants me to talk to her before hearing it from other people. But I always seem to have conflict with her and she thinks that I always put others before her. I work and I try to make her happy. My major weakness is communication (not like I am over spending or doing crazy shit) but I won't always talk to her first. I am trying to correct for issues I may have caused but some how it always comes back to her before I can resolve an issue just because I involved someone else and they shared an opinion.... I may not have even told this person anything important or anything deep about a situation.... So no when I'm fed up and I just won't ask anyone for help she says I just bypassed the issue and I'm not listening....