Me and my ex broke up few months ago and since that I went back in dating apps again for looking.

Me matched this German guy from dating app and we talked a bit at the app, then he added my social media the day I was going home to visit my family.

At the beginning I wasn’t sure if I was ready to start meeting people again cause the thing with me and my ex kinda stressed me out. I was quite hurt and sad. When he asked if I was single or anything, I said yes then he told me he also just became single. He broke up with his gf three weeks ago.

Knowing that we both just broke up makes me wonder probably we both weren’t ready for a relationship.

After chatting for a week, he asked me out for meeting. I live near by his city. So on my way back to the city where I live after the holiday, I booked a ticket to his city to meet up.

Frankly speaking I was very concerned that it was gonna be a pointless hookup for getting some distractions from breakups. And I was kinda ready to enjoy some sex time with him. But from the chat conversation I found this guy quite sincere and nice. I was not too worried.

Anyway. He was waiting for me at the train station and guiding me towards him on the phone. When I finally saw him, I was like he is so better looking than his pics! I was quite happy 😃. Then we just talked and laughed. We went back to his apartment. We had some food and he would always look at me and listen to me and be very gentle 😆. We went for a walk after food. The feelings get much better ! And I thought he d kiss me during our walk but he didn’t.

We went back home and cuddling at the couch, he is too hot 😆 , we were watching movies and I expected him to kiss me! But he still didn’t! So I took the move and kissed him! It felt great!

The second day we went in hiking and after that we lay on the couch just relaxing.

Now I am back at my city after this wonderful experience with him, when we are at different city, he always texts me when he finishes his work and calls me. We calls every night. He drove to my city last weekend and we spent another beautiful time together. That’s when he said he loves me . (before it, he also texted me that he is strange to himself but I am different to him )I don’t get why he said this cause it is kinda too fast to me. I like him I do! But I don’t want to just be a heal for him to feel better from the breakup. (I broke up few months ago and I healed fast)

When a German boy opens up to you like this, does he actually mean what he say? (When he said that, I said I think I am little falling in love with you as well )

Advices needed from German! Thank you!

Updates now:

Wow 🤩 it has been two months now since we met each other.

I still remember it was me who kissed him first cause he wouldn’t do it for some reason so I took the move that night on the couch.

Anyway. After two months, we spent all the weekends together, also with his close friends who are also a German and Chinese couple. He also introduced me to his family telling them how happy he is with me.

I think it took me longer time to fully put myself into this cause I was kinda feeling hurt from last relationship which I believed would lead to marriage. But failed. Which caused me scared to think of future marriages and stuff. Just want to enjoy everything with him. But meanwhile I still hope to have a family with him.

He did ask me questions like how many kids I want and quickly introduce me to his family and stuff. Also we share everything in life. He helps me with my problems and I also too. We solves things together here as a team. He doesn’t speak the language here but frankly speaking, I love to help him. I love to help and take care of people actually.

He changes me into a better version of myself. My ex threw me into a dark path. But my bf slowly dragged me out of it. After two months, I started to feel deeply into him. We match on lots of things. I also now and then do housework 😆. Before he just does it all but now we share which I love. I love to be useful in a relationship.

So is it possible that we might work out? Is he really thinking of me into someone he wants to be with for a long time ? He did say he sees a future with me.

He is leaving China in two years. And now I am thinking maybe end of this year I should move to his city so that we can spend more time together. He m haven’t asked me to move to a city for him. Me also didn’t prepare to do so cause I did it for my ex but it turned out badly. My ex got bored at me and I was so sad 😞. (After I found a nice bf. Ex wants me back. Long story )

anyway. Any advices will be most appreciated! Thank you guys.