About a month ago an ex appeared.. she started off with a long paragraph about how much she loved my husband. My husband saw that attention and grabbed onto it. He fed into everything she was saying and started to say the same things back. Things got really out of hand and he ended up falling for her. She gave him attention not that I don’t but because they don’t have kids together or have to deal with bills together or deal with life in general together it was different attention for him. It got to the point of him not wanting to leave me but didn’t want to let her go either. After I finally gave him an ultimatum he decided to let her go but now he doesn’t seem OK. He is now dealing with extreme anxiety attacks, the constant thought of talking to her, just overall break up pain I guess? He thinks that there’s something wrong with him because he allow this to happen and when it started he didn’t know how to stop and didn’t want it to stop. We are going to therapy for each other and he will be starting therapy for himself but I guess I don’t know what to do on my end. I see the struggle in him every day I see him hurting I see him not being OK and he wants to be OK he tells me at all the time he doesn’t know why he feels the way he does he doesn’t understand why he’s so anxious now all the time and why thoughts pop in his head and he starts to panic. I guess what does he need to do to be able to get better? He doesn’t like being this way or feeling the things he is feeling. How does he move forward with us and let her go?