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Friend is Pushy About My Feelings
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I have never experienced this before. I am staying with this friend temporarily. He has been super kind in letting me sleep on his couch.

I can be emotionally unavailable, a thing I am working on. Though I'd hope it would not be expected of me when I am relegated to the living room without a spot to get away. This friend is over-insistent on asking me about my feelings. When I tell him I am alright his response is always an apprehensive "alright" or "ok." And he will look at me with a serious look.

The other day he asked about my situation with moving and being separated. I filled him in (consciously made myself emotionally available) and told him how confident I was in the way things were going, that I was feeling good, that I am adaptable and have a good therapist. He responded as if he was not satisfied with this answer. I basically had to argue with him about my competency, ability to manage my emotions effectively and take care of myself in my new housing situation.

What is this? It is quite literally resulting in my disliking him.

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