I (19f) and about 20 weeks pregnant with my (22m) boyfriends son. When we found out I was pregnant I moved in with him with agreements I'd do the kitchen and dishes and he'd do the living room. There have been multiple times where I wouldn't touch the dishes for a few days mainly because I would get a regular migraine and be down for awhile then I'd have to go to work.

My boyfriend had told me once, his grandma would clean no matter how she felt even cook and make dinner. I had told him I'm not your grandma I can't do that, he then replied I wanted a girl like her.

Well anyways he had complained because of a few things I would or wouldn't do. I didn't get to relax very often and when I got off work I'd sit down and watch tv with him. Then he'd ask what I'm making or when I'm washing dishes.

Tonight I had to go to the ER because my OB had told me I had to if my meds weren't working and when I was leaving he had called to check in and I and I told him I was headed home and he offered to stay home from work since I wasn't doing good and I said ok. I am not spar to do anything besides lay in the quiet and dark room. I got home and he started griping at me because I haven't been able to clean for a few reasons and not just my migraine. He had told me I had to start cleaning because he is tired of our house being dirty and said he didn't want to but he's tired. He grabbed his pillow then headed to the living room to lay in there. I'm thinking I'm just going to clean tomorrow no matter how I feel then to stay with my mom for a week.