It hurt. Especially when he put my dog and cat in it. It is the last straw for me. How can I express to him what he does/did is hurtful? What can I do to avoid interacting with him while I make plans to leave? Sadly for the moment I still live in his house with his do it my way attitude (which has contributed to the breakup. That and not making space for me, gaslighting me, lack of romance, lying about his sexuality, no compassion, no romance). Any advice would be great as to how to make my last days here civil and polite. He tries to interact with me like nothing's happen but I'm done. Hearing him talk shit talk about me and during Thanksgiving was the last. He's literally standing there with them complaining about me as I hang out with the kids (cuz zero of the adults interacted with me. I was literally a nanny but that was cool. His grandkids were cool. We talked switch, played games, and played keep off the couch catch me. His middle grangdchild came out and she's 9 so she was still hurt how her family treated her and she and I talked a lot. Shes a great kid too....) But I'm listening kinda shocked so I yell over my shoulder: I hear that. You know I can hear you right? That's mean. He tries to clean it up but I know what I heard and was not going to be gaslit again. I made up in my mind for it to be over. And the food was crazy horrible anyway! I haven't said the words it's over for fear he'll kick me out and I don't want to make my pets homeless so we're technically together but don't let your right hand know what your left hand is doing and it's best to let your enemies guess your actions rather than tell them. How do I bid my time and keep my space while letting him know how he treats me is not ok? There is no hope of him changing so I don't want to reconcile just be cordial.