My girlfriend is acting a bit crazy over one “friend”, we exchange some texts (1 or 2 per day) and no serious conversations (she knows this). I don’t have that many friends, and this girl friend is the only one I “talk” with. She has also been criticising almost all of my guy friends, which is a bit strange. But this girl just gets on her nerves. I’ve only been with this girl once, during a soccer match, because we’ve met on a soccer team fan group and she was never important. And I made sure my gf knows all this.

This is getting strange for me because we both believe that everyone needs balance in life and that it is healthy to have friends and all that. She has almost exclusively guy friends, which is completely ok by me. Obviously it is uncomfortable at times but I never mentioned that because I trust her and I really don’t want to be the “jealous bf”.

Maybe this is completely normal and I’m the one getting weird without any reason but the way she talks about my guy friends making me feel guilty for texting them and about the only girl I “talk” to make me worry I’m being led to abandon everyone in my life.

I should add that she has never been really mad about that! She just gets weird and maybe a little sad(?). She says it shouldn’t be a problem for her but she is jealous. I really love this girl and I feel like she could be my life partner. It’s by far the best relationship I’ve had and it makes me feel really special. I just don’t want this question to grow and become a problem and ruin this for no reason.

I should add that I have no problem in completely stop talking with the girl or even blocking her (I usually don’t even answer to her texts for a day or two). But my GF obviously says that she doesn’t want me to do that. I’m just afraid that I’ll end up friendless if I start doing that.

TLDR: my gf has tons of close guy friends and it’s obviously ok but she freaks out about one female “friend” and doesn’t seem to like any other of my guy friends. I’m afraid I’m being led to leave everyone of them for her. (I honestly believe she does this unconsciously)