I’m 26F and he’s 30M. His family is in the Midwest and mine is in Boston. We live in Texas and have only been here 2 years.

I just moved in with him to a new apartment we picked out together but I’m feeling so unsettled, possibly because the relationship is seemingly much more serious now (been together for 1.5 years). But I know I want to be closer to my family whenever I “settle down” and also I’m realizing I don’t really care for Texas with all these new laws.

We both moved here for opportunities in tech and have good jobs. But I’m just unable to live in the moment and not sure what to do. I’m pretty sure he mentioned to me he wouldn’t want to move to the northeast (when he originally said that when we met, I didn’t think much of it because I didn’t think I did either) but now my goals are changing.

I’m in a weird predicament and not sure what to do or when go even bring this up. We just moved less than month ago into our place together so I feel it’s too soon.

TL;DR — been with boyfriend for less than 2 years, and now realizing things I want in life are slightly different from when we met. I want to move out of Texas in probably like 2 years, to live closer to my family on the east coast. His family lives in the Midwest. Not sure what to do.