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I just met this girl on Insta after she messaged me. She started by asking me if I wanted to snap, I didn’t know her but I want to get to know more people to broaden my friend group. We added each other as friends on snap and she almost immediately asked if I was looking for a relationship, I am single and have been kind of looking for a relationship. She then asked me for my number and wanted to FaceTime. I gave her my number and decided to FaceTime her once. She seemed nice after we talked for a bit, getting to know each other. I had to go so I said goodbye and ended the FaceTime. Only a few minutes later she was texting me to set up another FaceTime call later in the day and then also the next day. She also says sorry for just about everything she says for some reason. She also says things like “I’m sorry I’m not good looking” all the time. I realize that is a confidence thing but it just seems weird to me as she is not bad looking. Just seems like a “red flag” type of thing to me. The amount of things that she said and admitted to me just feels overwhelming to me because I have never been in a relationship before and I would rather take it slower than just deciding to date after one day. I’m not sure if I’m ready for the commitment she seems to want. I would rather get to know someone first instead of just deciding off of first impressions. I’ve tried to tell her this but she seems to ignore it and just set up more FaceTimes and times that we can hang out in person which are both things that I’m not really comfortable with after just meeting her today. How should I tell her that I’m not really sure that I want to pursue a relationship with her, but would rather maybe remain friends. I really don’t want to just ghost her because I would feel horrible if I did that.
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