So on Monday I was meant to go out with this guy but on Sunday his friend got into an accident. I spoke to him some on Monday over text and it wasn't a good time to talk and he said he would talk to me later.

We haven't gotten to meet up in person yet, we phone called for a few hours saturday night and had been texting a lot.

So I guess I'm not sure if it's better to wait for him to text me when things are better or if I should text him. I was thinking texting him would be a good idea. I would definitely want someone to message me but guys might be different.

Should I message my tinder date too see how things are after his friend got into an accident or should I wait?