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My girlfriend and I (m) have been dating steadily for almost a year now. Sheās expressed that sheās poly (which Iām fine with just not familiar) and I told her we could try an open relationship so that she could be her full self and not have to hide who she is. She recently just had one of her friends (f) from high school meet up with her and they both admitted their feelings for each other. I told my gf that I fully support her and her friend being partners, but I expressed concerns about being afraid of being forgotten or left behind. Iāve never been in an open or poly relationship before, but I love this girl so much that I said I was willing to try. Iām trying not to get jealous, but itās hard for me to see how excited my gf gets when she talks about this girl, but seems indifferent when it comes to seeing or doing things with me. Iāve talked to her about it and I understand they are in more of a āhoneymoon phaseā, but itās still a little difficult. I told my gf that I wouldnāt be opposed to it becoming a triangle if the other girl was interested (sheās getting over her recent ex bf so she might not want to be with another guy soon), but if not I will still happily support them. My gf and I are moving in together soon and weāve offered an invitation for this girl to move in as well so she can get away from her ex plus itās easier for rent. Does anyone have experience or advice as to how to manage my own jealousy and also feel confident in the relationship that I have established with my gf? I have plans on marrying this woman, but I am scared this might throw a wrench in that plan. We promised to always be partners no matter what happened, but I would like something more āstableā for lack of a better word. Any help would be appreciated, thank you.
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